the better it is for the whole conflict, or the situation. hold me, feel me in your arms. do i feel weak, tom? i don't, do i? oh, you'll need me. you'll need a woman. you need what a woman can give you, to do what you have to do. oh, listen to me, tom, listen with your head and your heart. the sun only shines half the time, tom. the other half is night. i've made up my mind. change your mind, tom. just once in your life, change your mind. i'll send for you. (thomas schatz) there is an incompatibility in the desire for a woman and everything she represents. the bearer of culture. the bearer of children. the figure whose fundamental function is to tie the man down. and the notion of an individual as one utterly self-reliant. go please, if you're going to go, please go now. i want to be with you so much my knees feel like -- like they've knives in them.